Everyone’s dream is to have a house, which is well built, designed and furnished. Many times this is not the case. Some will have detached single-unit housing (bungalows) , others semi-detached dwellings, or movable dwellings like huts/tents. For all the above types, the time and resources invested will differ. A person constructing a flat will invest more time and resources compared to one putting up a bungalow or a hut. One building a flat will go an extra mile to find out where to get good quality raw material, interact with people who have constructed flats before. It’s the same with growth. People desire to grow in so many areas; Spiritual, financial, physical etc. The level of growth in any of the areas will depend on how much you put in.
Starting my leadership journey has been one of the most fulfilling experiences of my life but at the same time challenging. Never in my life did I ever see myself as a leader. I enjoyed being in the background more than in the limelight. In 2017, I was exposed to an environment of people who are passionate about leadership. We would meet every week. Unlike other meetings or classes where everything taught is just head knowledge, here it wasn’t the case. Head knowledge had to be turned into something tangible. One of the assignments we were given was to start and lead a missional community (MC). I had been in an MC before but I was a member not a leader. Leading an MC and being a member are two different things. The fact is leading is harder than just being a member. Nonetheless, I swallowed the pin and on Wednesday 19th July 2017, As He Is mssional community was launched. The journey has not been smooth. At the moment, the MC has grown to 9 members with 6 active ones from 2. Growing the missional community to that level has not been a walk in the park. It has been a combination of so many things; investing in my growth by joining leadership classes, buying books, investing time etc.
This missional community report is good, “my accountability partner a.k.a coach complemented me last Saturday. He continued, “Henriettah I do not know what you did but this year your MC is doing well, attendance is consistent, frontier engagement is ok etc. I could not contain the joy that filled my heart. Now all these achievements did not happen out of the blue. I had to invest in my members, have one on ones with at least one a week, visit them, call them, affirm them and spend time with people who have led MCs before. I am happy about the progress of the MC, me as a person and for my leaders who saw the potential in me and explored it. I cant say I have arrived but I am still under construction.
Taking the perspective that we are all “under construction” enables us assume collective responsibility and concern for all. And with that awareness, we can grasp the risk of not taking action or getting involved in this work. To quote RWJF, “what is at stake for America is the possibility of losing an entire generation of productive men who will fall short of their potential, live less healthy lives and fail to build and strengthen their communities.”