Utterly painful and evil experiences weigh us down to an extent that we lose ourselves. I believe no person wishes to go through tormenting circumstances. On the contrary, this is not the case. In life, up and downs are inevitable but what matters most is your response to whatever storm shows up. “Everything happens for a reason”, is one statement I have heard a zillion times. However, my wish is always for the reason to hurry so that I can witness the reason.
” And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who called according to His purpose.” Romans 8:28 NKJV
When all things are falling in place or happening the way you had planned, it is very easy to believe that everything is working together for good. Reality hits us when the opposite transpires. Years ago, hearing everything work together for my good never had meaning. I was always the one footing to school while others were being drove, always the one pretending to read while others move out to get something for break time; the list is just endless. Normally, the hard times challenge our sense that everything works for our good. The fact that most events do not appear with labels or indicators of what they mean, it takes ages for us to pick sense out of the occurrences. However, God promises us that everything works out for our good; first for those who love God and second those who are called according to His purpose.
If we love God, what happens in our lives, it does not matter whether positive or negative, is always for our good. He calls us friends, sons and daughters.
Your current state is never your end point. God is not done with you yet.